Known for her candid opinions on Loose Women, she has now taken on the role of Britain’s most straightforward advice columnist, offering guidance on matters relating to sex, relationships, and life challenges.
Dear Coleen
Seeking assistance, a reader shared a deeply personal experience from three years ago. They disclosed a history of childhood sexual abuse, spanning from the age of six to 16, a period that coincided with their father’s departure from the family.
The reader had only confided in their late husband about the abuse, as their family, including their mother, reacted negatively to the revelation, distancing themselves and discouraging any disclosure to others. This rejection has left the reader feeling isolated and questioning their purpose.
Struggling with loneliness and a lack of trust in others, the reader sought guidance on how to move forward and rebuild their life.
Coleen’s Response
Commending the reader for their bravery in speaking out, Coleen emphasized the importance of seeking support and not allowing family judgment to overshadow their healing process. She encouraged the reader to focus on their own well-being and not internalize any misplaced blame or shame projected by others.
Coleen shared a personal anecdote about her sister’s disclosure of abuse within their family, highlighting the initial shock and eventual support they provided. She stressed the significance of seeking professional help and connecting with support groups tailored to survivors of childhood abuse.
To facilitate healing, Coleen recommended therapy, suggesting avenues for accessing professional counseling services. She reiterated that the reader deserves to move beyond mere survival and embrace a fulfilling life.
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