Known for her candid opinions on Loose Women, she now serves as Britain’s most straightforward advice columnist, addressing issues related to sex, relationships, and life challenges.
Dear Coleen
A woman in her 40s seeks guidance on her romantic situation. She describes her partner as physically attractive and fun, but struggles with his lack of communication, causing her to feel uncertain and neglected.
Despite enjoying their time together, the inconsistent communication patterns leave her feeling unsettled and constantly checking her phone for any sign of contact. Confronting him about this issue only leads to him dismissing her concerns as unfounded.
Coleen advises against pursuing a relationship with someone who exhibits avoidant behavior. She highlights the futility of seeking validation from someone unwilling to engage emotionally, cautioning that such dynamics often lead to heartache and self-doubt.
She emphasizes the importance of self-respect and recognizing when it is necessary to move on from a situation that does not honor one’s worth. Coleen shares her own experience of prioritizing self-worth over fleeting attractions, underscoring the significance of not settling for less than one deserves.
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