Known for her candid opinions on Loose Women, she is now recognized as the most straightforward agony aunt in Britain, offering guidance on issues related to relationships, sex, and life challenges.
Dear Coleen
A man in his thirties seeks advice on navigating a new relationship with a woman who seems perfect but harbors fears due to a past failed marriage experience.
Having been previously married to someone who drastically changed after marriage, he questions his judgment and is hesitant to fully commit to a new relationship, fearing a repeat of history.
Despite warnings from others about his ex-wife’s behavior, he was blindsided by her charm initially but later faced her selfishness, disrespect, and embarrassing actions that led to their separation.
Struggling with trust issues, he seeks guidance on how to move forward in his new relationship without letting past experiences cloud his judgment.
Coleen advises
Coleen suggests refraining from pressuring oneself about the future and learning from past mistakes to build a healthier relationship. She encourages open communication about fears and vulnerabilities to strengthen the bond with the new partner.
She emphasizes that marriage is not the only path to a fulfilling relationship, citing examples of successful long-term partnerships without formal marriage. Coleen shares personal experiences of divorce but maintains a positive outlook on love despite challenges.
Acknowledging the impact of heartbreak, she advises embracing the present and enjoying the company of a new, caring partner while being mindful of past lessons.
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